Present Over Perfect – part 2


If you haven’t read my last post (part 1), read that first.

Another chapter that the author, Shauna Niequist, writes about is called Simplicity. I am all about simplicity whenever possible so I was eager to read this chapter. To sum it up, she discusses how simplifying her material possessions gives her great joy, helps her make better decisions and she sees only things she loves. Her energy is free to do other things rather than decide which one of thirty outfits to wear or to buy meaningful gifts for others instead of just picking out something because it’s on sale.

“As I’ve been aching for simplicity inside myself – in my heart, in my spirit – I’ve been surprised to find how much simplifying my material world has created space not just around me, but inside me.”

“For some people, getting dressed is a delight, a way to tell the world who they are, a creative and inspiring process. Some people get a little charge of energy from the pure variety of what they buy and put together and wear. I’m finding that I get a little charge of energy from knowing exactly what I love and what I don’t, and being clear about the two. I’m more inspired by a near-uniform, a narrow set of parameters that make me feel most like myself.  I love wearing black, white, gray, and blue. I love classic shapes, stripes, jeans. And I love the flash of metallics, like gold sandals and jewelry. I find such delight and energy in this newly simple way of dressing – that actually I”d been practicing for a long time, only now my closet reflected it.”

“In the kitchen, in the closet, and throughout the rest of the house, I kept finding that the more I let go of, the happier I was. It almost seemed like the less stuff there was in our home, the more freely I could breathe, the more deeply I was able to think.”

“The other benefit I’m finding in these newer, narrower parameters about what I wear and what fills my cabinets is that I’m finding I make better decisions when I make fewer decisions. When I open my closet and see only things I love, and relatively few of them, when I open my cabinets and see nothing but white plates, those are just that many fewer decisions to make in a day that always, invariably, make that day just a couple ticks easier, and I’ll take it.”

“I find myself filling my cart and my shopping bag differently these days, too – do I want to manage this? Clean this? Find a place for this? Will this bring me ongoing joy, or will it be just another thing to store, just another thing to clutter up my mind and home? I’m bringing fewer and fewer things into our home, and I’m shopping for other people in new ways, too – what are timeless, useful gifts, instead of easy-to-pick-up knickknacks? Or even better, what experiences can we share, instead of what items can I fill their home with?”

“How we live matters, and what you choose to own will shape your life, whether you choose to admit it or not. Let’s live lightly, freely, courageously, surrounded only by what brings joy, simplicity, and beauty.”

If you are interested in the book, here’s an Amazon link.

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